![]() I guess my point is I have a lot of good memories (and some not so good) about the guys I dated before my husband. He was tall, had a mullet, a big nose, always wore a baseball cap, but he could kiss! And the sensitive college football star who really knew how to romance someone but never pressured anyone. This trip down memory lane has me thinking about my "best kisser" memory, a guy from the corn fields of the Midwest (I'm a Northeast city girl!). Don't let unresolved feelings get in the way of being able to make the commitment to your marriage every day. I'm not suggesting you do exactly like I did, but I would suggest talking with a counselor about it. I still have the occasional dream but am able to push them aside. I eventually looked him up online (early years of internet so not easy!), called him and realized that what we had wasn't what I wanted or needed anymore. The dreams caused me to think about him on the regular, and I missed the passion. My relationship with the boyfriend was intense, romantic, and had a recklessness about it. Marriage is about a commitment that is pretty much renewed every day.įor years after I was married I had reoccurring dreams (sometimes more than once a week) about the guy I dated before meeting my husband. Marriage isn't about finding the one true love/partner/whatever. Until then, don’t pay much attention to their behavior.Being married doesn't mean that all previous relationships are suddenly faded memories. Let them convey that they want you back in their life. If your ex is simply showing you that they have feelings but not explicitly telling you about it, then you should hold on. If you are not sure about going back to your ex, wait for their response.If you are satisfied with how you are both communicating, you may want to consider getting back together. If you think you were happy with them and they are also keen on giving the relationship another chance, talk to them about it. Are you thinking of getting back with your ex? Before you decide, recall how your life was when you were still together and compare it with how you feel in your current life. ![]() It is your life, and you don’t have to return to a relationship based on the difficulties they are having with moving on. If your relationship has ended on a bad note, and you don’t want to get back with them, it is okay.
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